Revelations....

I had a moment of brilliance the other night....

I think we have all done this at some point. A new relationship, a lot of insecurity and the strong desire to protect ourselves from getting hurt. We look for the things that are wrong with the other person as a way to prevent ourselves from getting too close to get hurt.

It's a common human error and a rather immature one. We are all looking for something perfect and we will keep searching until we realize it's the flaws in other people that we love and what we've been looking for all along.

Don't get me wrong, it's nice to have the guy that has everything and is everything you think you want, but perfection is overrated.

I want the guy that makes mistakes, has bad days and doesn't just let me win. I like to win all on my own sometimes.


~Bean